Learn to communicate effectively
Effective communication skills are fundamental to success in many aspects of life, particularly many jobs require strong communication skills and people with good communication skills usually enjoy better interpersonal relationships with family and friends.
So it's good to learn a few tricks to be more fluid in communication and language, making himself clearly understood and adopting an active attitude of listening and exchange with our interlocutor!
The famous american psychologist Thomas Gordon has spent his whole life to teach the secret of an happy communication, only way for the resolution of conflicts between parents and children, teachers and students, managers and employees, women and men, young and old, sellers and buyers.
For being a good communicator, according to Gordon method must possess some fundamental skills: active listening and I-message, both as simple techniques as indispensable for proper communication.
In the first case an important manifestation of active listening is undoubtedly the empathy, the ability to fully understand the state of mind of others. This allows you to share his experience emotionally without losing the sense of their own identity.
Thanks to the I-message technique, the interlocutors don't feel blamed, or judged, and this way they can listen to the needs of others more carefully, thinking about the consequences that lead their actions.
Undoubtedly, those who can make good use of these communication techniques will have on its side the chance to live a life full of possibilities!